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How To Get Rid of a “Bad” Memory

How To Get Rid of a “Bad” Memory

My son once asked me, “Dad, how do you get rid of a Bad memory?”. It was a very thought provoking question. After some thought I explained to him that we cannot get rid of a bad memory, but we can remember parts of that moment that are missing. Our minds...
Resolving Trauma

Resolving Trauma

Most people believe that it takes a very long time to resolve trauma. Hours of Therapy and hundreds or thousands of dollars. I know firsthand that this is not true. There are fairly simple ways that a skilled coach can resolve trauma in a matter of minutes or hours....
Counselling and Emotional Pain

Counselling and Emotional Pain

Our thinking causes our pain. Our thinking and perception is the cause of our pain. Emotional pain comes in many forms and varying intensities. One source of our pain happens anytime we experience and perceive a loss such as a death, a breakup, a divorce, our physical...

How to Deal with Anxiety

Anxiety and Fear is a form of future based thinking. Whenever we are thinking about the future or the past, we are doing it in the present moment. Our minds become engrossed in thoughts and images of the future and all of the events and negatives that may possibly...

How to Deal with Anger

One of the simplest ways that I know of for dealing with anger is as follows:   Put your attention on your body, let yourself feel how your body is feeling. We get caught up in our thoughts and forget that we even have a body, so just put your attention on how...